Disclaimer: I am sorry for
the rude and insolent words that I have used in my update and very sorry for
the wacky title as well.
On
my way to the famous Sabji Bazaar, just while negotiating a turn, my
spouse cries, “Aiee” in a pity tone. I too looked and I was amazed at what I
saw.
A
middle-aged woman with an infant in her lap, just by glance, the baby in her
lap wouldn’t be more than six months old. I have a baby who is of the same size
and perhaps might be of the same age.
The woman had her face swollen and she was injured in her head as well.
She was there holding her baby and her half swollen face asking for people’s
help. When I went back to see her, there were already people around her
offering cash. I still cannot digest this unusual sight of a mother with her
baby begging for alms. This is an unusual observation that I made while on a
visit to the Farmers Market to buy some provisions.
The
baby’s dad was nowhere in sight. Where is he on earth? What made him abandon
his blood? How would he feel if he sees this sight? I am a father now and I
perfectly understand the ordeal and hardship in raising a child without a dad.
How would that supposed dad feel if he was to be in his mom’s lap and begging
for alms? Be it legitimate or else otherwise, doesn’t he feel the pinch of his
blood and wife sitting in the middle of a busy walkway, seeking people’s help,
whom she doesn’t know at all. I despise the man who left them with nothing but
to beg.
I am
not a maestro in marital affairs and its legalities but thinking of the baby
one should re-unite. Either of the spouses may be wrong but thinking of the
baby in between, the spouses should keep their differences aside and settle
down with a consensus. Isn’t this a life worth living for? I do believe in
second chances but there is always a choice to make. This world revolves and
runs around the word, ‘Mother’. It’s very disheartening to have seen such a
sight and for the supposed daddy, it is even more excruciating to believe that
such people do have a place among us.
This
sight of a mother and her kid brought tears to my eyes instantly and I couldn’t
get a good sleep last night. What good
are you when you can’t provide for your own blood? Perhaps, this man might not
have heard, “Blood is thicker than water”. This sight touched me so much that I
have fallen short of words to express my emotions.
Folks,
I am sorry for the blur picture as I took it from a moving car. This update of
mine makes the 100th update on my blog and to term it, it’s a
century update. Instead of jubilation and elation over the century update, my
heart wept in pain thinking of the mother and her sleeping infant. Just on a
pensive note, I would have guillotined the person responsible for leaving a mother
and her kid to their fate…
This is another sad story. I am so sorry for that poor mother who is left by her husband/boyfriend at the mercy of strangers with her innocent baby. It calls for better advocacy on unintended pregnancies, proper parenting and dealing with the accused as per the law of the country. This poor mother would be lucky if she meets generous people because there are some people who do not possess a heart of a true human being. It's a very insightful post Sir. Keep sharing. Also congratulations for hitting the 100th article on your blog la.
ReplyDeleteSad in its true sense and I can only hope and wish that she must be keeping her baby fine...
DeleteI completely share your concerns over the child. As such, I have always loved children and more so once my daughter was born. Now, I can't stand any abuse against any child. And this post makes me want to take care of the child.
ReplyDeleteHope things got sorted out for good. Prayers and wishes.
Thank you fr the comment Luzee, I too wish the good for the mother and her child...
DeleteIndeed, a very sad scene...well put in the thoughts...
ReplyDeleteThank you Sancha
DeleteCongratulations on your 100th blogpost. And I am very happy you expressed love, care, compassion for the helpless mother and the little baby on this special personal occasion; it already means you have began your long journey of living for other... way to go my friend.
ReplyDeleteWay to indeed Passu.....
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