Long time! A
very long time indeed! I am writing this update because I needed to let myself
breathe some relief sigh as it pained me now for the last three days. Guys, you
may not get the idea underpinning this update but ask any teacher, about
transfer and opportunities.
I am getting
transferred and I also happen to be one HRD member here in my office. I have
given and performed in Khenrig Namsum
[1]for
the last seven years. It was high time for me to switch to some other places
due to some personal reasons, not that I am switching profession. Our system of
works make us travel less and if we ever get one, one has to perfectly qualify
for the opportunities, to the criteria laid by firstly your own boss and
several other bosses above him.
I didn’t
qualify for any of the opportunities-professionally of course, due to the fact
that you are getting transferred. The supposed ‘on transfer’ guy. Fine, it
works in other places and offices too. The opportunities are simply shut due to
the reason ‘on transfer’. All right, all said and done!
What I am
trying to say is, opportunities are not given to the people on transfer and I
have a lot of friends who share the same views. My mentor told this to me, “it’s
to the ones that remain we reserve such ‘supposed’ opportunities. And I also do
have a friend who like me is on transfer and was given the opportunity. I
enquired about it and the reply I got was, “the person cancelled the transfer”.
Fine too. Now I enquired this very friend’s friends-close friends of course. I
was told, the transfer is not cancelled. I could not call the very friend on
moral reasons. Why jeopardize someone’s already ‘got’ opportunity?
Now, at this
point, I am left in a dilemma who to believe. This left me lost and I suppose
there is a justification to this. And I also do presume, this justification, if
ever it comes to me, then, I will lose a friend or I will get black listed in
the diary of my superiors. This is my humble presumption.
This is what
happened recently. Well I now simply wait for my order to come and rejoice in
the thought that I will now finally be with my dear wife.
Good god!
What’s happening!
Good day
folks!
Lobzang sir,
ReplyDeleteBe strong. You are not the first of its kind who experienced such a thing. I have written the same thing in my blog long time ago.
Always remember " What doesn’t kills make you stronger" a song by American singer Kelly Clarkson.
God bless you.
Thanks la, great to hear there are many like me. This gives me an added zeal to go on
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